Body Pleasure and Relationship

Fortunately, a mate relationship gives you a perfect arena in which to learn to overcome your negative body conditioning and to celebrate your body's desires. When you are in a loving relationship, consciously sharing your body with another, you can become more at ease in your skin. Under the adoring gaze and lusty caresses of your mate you can learn to know your beauty from the inside out. A fulfilling sex life assists you to feel beautiful through channels that are both chemical (mood-altering endorphins) and emotional (the intimacy of desire). If you feel beautiful, you are.

As integral aspects of deep connection between lovers, pleasure, touching, and sex gain moral legitimacy and spiritual character in the context of monogamous relationship. Monogamous relationships provide a cocoon of commitment, a safe haven for learning the ways of Body Freedom. Consider, for example, touch as one of the most basic sources of pleasure. Touch isn't optional for a good relationship, it's essential. Studies dating back more than fifty years document that without touch human beings do not thrive. Without touch you can become emotionally withdrawn and physically and psychically ill. The absence of pleasure might induce emotional instability, possibly correlated with addiction, and encourage abusive, violent behavior. Relationships give you permission to explore touching in intimate ways that range from tenderly affectionate to passionately sexual. Physical pleasure becomes socially acceptable within the context of a relationship.

Affectionate touch and satisfying sex nourish you and your relationship. Sensual nutrition is not just in your head, and it's definitely more than skin deep. As Lou Reed sings, I think it's chemical. When you give and receive loving, sensual touch, endorphins and oxytocin surge through your system. Not only do these powerful chemicals make you feel great while you're caressing but they also fuel the desire for more touches later. By upping your touch quotient, you can satisfy more than just your partner's skin hunger; stress release, comfort, relaxation, and healing are all at your fingertips

Source : http://www.articlesbase.com

Premature Ejaculation a Warm Up to Great Sex

So what if some guys have trouble holding their load? There are millions of men each day that suffer from rapid or Premature Ejaculation (PE), and if your one of them its time to quit your crying and do something about it. The first step to a resolution is to admit you have a problem.

After a wonderful evening with the woman of your dreams, it’s time to head back to your place. Afraid to “blow” your chances with this beauty, you grab a bottle of wine in an attempt to distract her. Maybe she won’t notice your little issue and hopefully she will give you a chance for a second date. Oh no! Your plan didn’t work; she’s ready for action. Before removing her panties, you have already climaxed and are too embarrassed to move. In a panic, you pretend you don’t want to go any further, hoping she didn’t notice. There’s no need to be humiliated, tell her your situation and let her know that she’s not being rejected.

If you are sexually attracted to another, sexual arousal is natural and not something to be ashamed of. Inform your partner that you are prone to PE. Talk it over, just because you shot one load does not mean there is not another one waiting to take its place. Let your mate know that the thought of her gets you very aroused so you need to slow down and enjoy foreplay. It is a rare woman that wouldn’t like the oven preheated and wants that extra foreplay. With a bit of extra stimulation it doesn’t take long for most men to once again become aroused. Talking openly can bring you both, mentally and physically closer to each other. If this is someone you care about and want to have a relationship with, then they should understand your needs and work with you for after all you are a team.

There are a few ways to help build stamina and learn ejaculatory control. It is said that a lot of men ejaculate prematurely due to their youth. Your masturbation during youth may have had to be quick in an attempt to avoid being caught by parents, siblings and the family dog. Since masturbation was rushed, it is quite possible that one would be conditioned to getting it off fast and has remained that way. Now is the time to break that habit and develop some new ones. First though it is helpful to understand the phases of sexual response as you get on the road to recovery.

Masters and Johnson found that the physiological reaction to male and female sexual stimulus could best be described by dividing the cycles of sexual response into four separate phases – Excitement, Plateau, Orgasmic and Resolution. The male will almost always pass through all four of these phases. The Excitement Phase develops from any source of physical or mental stimulation and at this time the erection will begin and breathing start to become heavier. In the Plateau Phase the arousal is continued and the erection hard and firm as you feel highly aroused. For the male, the Orgasmic Phase is experienced at the time of ejaculation. During the Resolution Phase breathing returns to normal and the erection subsides.

Your goal is to delay the Orgasmic Phase (ejaculation) and that can be done with a bit of practice. When masturbating, try to pace yourself. Every time you feel like you’re about to climax, stop and wait 30 seconds. It will be extremely annoying at first, but try to do this for as long as you can. Whenever you masturbate, try and outlast your previous time. Keep track of how often you’re able to stop yourself. This can work with a mate as well.

You and your partner can practice different techniques to help condition you. Oral sex can be a good way to kick off the night. Since oral is not as intense as penetration, one can easily lie back and enjoy the show. This act will allow you to focus on holding back instead of thrusting. If the urge to ejaculate arrives make your mate aware. This should tell your mate to stop. If you feel the need to release, do so, but try not to force the orgasm. If you avoid a heavy orgasm your penis won’t become as soft and sensitive. In doing so, you should be able to keep going. This is when you take the time to pleasure your mate while keeping yourself aroused and ready to go. Foreplay is very important in a relationship and this is a great way to get the party started. When your mate’s oven is finished preheating, try having intercourse.

During intercourse, try and pace yourself. Lay back and have your mate ride you for a bit. If you have the urge to climax, signal your mate to be still. This is a great way to tease each other while extending your fun. Often, a girl will get extremely wet just sitting on your penis anticipating the thrust. When she least expects it, open fire with an abundance of thrusts. This technique may cause you to climax, but it’s guaranteed to put a permanent smile on her face.

Just remember you are not alone. Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual complaint among men. Through practice, slowing down and learning how to control your ejaculation your orgasms will become greater as will your mates and she will hardly be able to wait for that next lovemaking session.

Author : Terrance Lile
Source : http://www.articlecity.com

Panduan Kerjaya Jobstreet.com Hari Hackathon MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009

Panduan Kerjaya Jobstreet.com Hari Hackathon MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009

Bersempena MSC Malaysia Open Source Conference 2009 (MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009) komuniti sumber terbuka (OSS) Malaysia akan menganjurkan Hari Hackathon pada hari Ahad 31 Mei 2009 9 pagi hingga 5 ptg.

Tarikh : 31 Mei 2009
Masa : 9 pagi hingga 5 petang

Masuk adalah percuma.

MDeC dan Jobstreet.com di Hari Hackathon MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009 membuka peluang kepada anda yang mencari pekerjaan dalam bidang ICT.

Ianya Bertempat di

Berjaya Times Square Hotel And Convention Center
Tkt 14, Berjaya Time Square, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Masuk adalah percuma.

Pada hari Hackathon tersebut MDeC dengan kerja sama Jobstreet.com akan membuka bengkel kerjaya ICT kepada pengunjung. Jobstreet.com akan menyediakan sesi menyediakan maklumat diri, nasihat kerjaya dan peluang temuduga dengan syarikat-syarikat taraf MSC Malaysia bagi mereka yang layak.

Sama ada anda mencari pekerjaan, atau mahu mempelajari cara-cara menyediakan "resume" dan mahu berbincang mengenai kerjaya ICT jemputlah datang Hari Hackathon MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009.

Masuk adalah percuma pada hari Hackathon 31 Mei 2009.

Laman web rasmi MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009
http://www.mscmalaysia.my/osconf

Sertai MSC Malaysia Open Source Group di Facebook
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=78169245399

MSC Malaysia Client Contact Centre clic@mdec.com.my (1-800-88-8338)

Ambil peluang untuk mempelajari Linux Ubuntu, OpenSuse, Fedora, OpenSolaris, FreeBSD, PCBSD dan pelbagai lagi bagi meluaskan lagi peluang pekerjaan anda.
Bertanya kepada pakar-pakar pembangunan perisian OSS dalam pelbagai bahasa komputer seperti Java, PHP dan Python.

Datanglah beramai-ramai Hari Hackathon sempena MSC Malaysia OSCONF 2009, 31 Mei 2009, 9 pagi hingga 5 ptg. MDeC dan Jobstreet.com.

Laman sokongan komuniti OSS Malaysia
http://www.mscoscon.my/

Archive

http://planet-wanita-perempuan-melayu.blogspot.com/2009/05/panduan-kerjaya-jobstreetcom-hari.html

Great Sex Life For Seniors

A good sex life for adults over 60 depends largely on health conditions and lifestyle. Younger folks generally have a hard time believing that their aging parents (or even grandparents!) might still be sexually active; the truth is only 5% of those considered over-the-hill feel that sex is only for the young ones. Having a sexual relationship is important, even if the couple is over 60. Romance, intimacy and sex go hand-in-hand—most couples have sex at least once, even three times a week. However, various health issues which commonly plague this age group may contribute to the loss of sexual drive.

The baby boomers who survived the flower-power days started sexual freedom over 40 years ago. For a lot of seniors over 60, the sexual revolution is still alive and kickin’ although it is an undeniable fact that a lot is also experiencing problems in getting the va-va-vroom back in the boudoir. What are these common problems? Read on and learn how to keep your sexual torch burning. Sexual arousal does not ebb as the person grows older. Aging is a period in life that every person will eventually go through—it does not mean that a person suddenly becomes physically or sexually unappealing or become less interested in sex as part of the aging process.

But, as a person ages, sex can be more challenging. Problems that can interfere with a senior’s sex life include: erectile dysfunction, bladder problems and disability, as well as asthma and heart problems. Arthritis, obesity, smoking, alcohol and a sedentary lifestyle also contribute to the decrease in one’s sexual drive. These conditions are easily treated with proper medication if addressed early. A common drug used by seniors is Viagra, the wonder pill for erectile dysfunction and impotence. A couple must be aware of each other’s physical conditions and problems, no matter how embarrassing it is (such as creaking bones and leaking bladder).

After all, honesty is the best policy—and being honest with your partner is one way to avoid being embarrassed with whatever ailment you may have. Slowing of responses during aging is normal. Sexual arousal may be harder to achieve—this too, is not impossible to overcome. Be open to your partner about what turns you on and what’s difficult for you. This may also be the time for you to experiment new and different positions that best suit your needs and physical condition. Books dealing with sex in later life are easily found in bookstores; articles and tastefully written materials are readily found on the internet, with vast collections of ideas about helpful positions and sex toys that may help increase one’s desires.

Couples therapy, as well as a trip to a sex therapist is also helpful for couples dealing with physical changes that are brought about by aging. Aging does not end sex. It should be a wondrous experience for people of any age and should only stop when a person decides to do so. Age does not dictate what is right or wrong; instead, it provides more opportunities to explore different ways to have a more enjoyable sex life. Just as with the young folks, a satisfying sex life is achieved by being open to one another, taking the time to talk and consider the needs of one’s partner, and being bold enough to experiment and have fun.

Kepuasan Seks (Orgasm) Daripada Segi Kajian Sains

Kepuasan Seks (Orgasm) Daripada Segi Kajian Sains

Fakta-fakta seks yang perlu anda tahu berdasarkan kajian sains.

Sewaktu klimak seks, melalui imbasan MRI pada otak mendapati ada perbezaan antara lelaki dan wanita sewaktu mencapai puncak seks. Klimaks seks bagi lelaki dan perempuan akan tertumpu di bahagian tengah dalam otak dimana pusat kenikmatan berada. Malah bahagian yang dipanggil "lateral orbitofrontal cortex" ditutup sewaktu klimaks, bahagian ini mengendalikan pertimbangan dan tingkahlaku kita.


Namun begitu terdapat perbezaan antara lelaki dan wanita. Lelaki walaupun dalam keadaan menikmati seks, bahagian-bahagian otak lain masih lagi aktif kepada keadaan sekeliling.

Berbanding dengan wanita, seks menyebabkan aktiviti otak semua tertumpu kepada satu bahagian iaitu bahagian tengah dalam otak, pusat kenikmatan. Bahagian-bahagian otak lain, seumpama ditutup dan hanya tumpuan seks sahaja dibuat.

Kajian sains membuktikan, wanita seperti hilang akal semasa mencapai klimaks seks dan formula klimaks seks adalah

EMOTION + PLEASURE + EUPHORIA = ORGASM

Sumber

http://health.howstuffworks.com/brain-during-orgasm.htm

Satu lagi kajian dijalankan adalah dengan menjalankan MRI sewaktu batang zakar dimasukkan dalam faraj wanita. Kajian mendapati batang zakar lelaki membengkong sehingga 120 darjah sewaktu dalam wanita.

Adalah menarik melihat kepala zakar adalah berdepan dengan pintu rahim wanita (uterus)

Gambar hubungan seks boleh dilihat disini

http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2009/03/magnetic-resonance-images-mri-of-male.html

Sumber

Magnetic resonance images of the male and female genitals during coitus
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/319/7225/1596

Adalah didapati sewaktu klimak seks, badan mengeluarkan hormon Endorphin, hormon yang menimbulkan rasa senang dan menghilangkan sakit.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endorphin

Sebab itu, ubat sakit kepala adalah melakukan hubungan seks dan BUKAN menjadikan alasan untuk tidak.

Dapatkan ebook percuma "Panduan dan Cara-cara Pancutkan Isteri puaskan isteri" di

http://groups.google.com.my/group/kaki-seks/files

Daftar sebagai ahli dan muat turun percuma fail PDF Ebook

pancutkan-isteri-ebook.pdf

http://kamasutra.tipswanita.com/2009/02/pancutkan-isteri-puaskan-isteri.html

Ebook Panduan dan cara-cara pancutkan Isteri adalah hasil Blog Taman Wangi bagi memberikan panduan seks yang sihat dan berguna untuk pengguna komputer dan Internet Malaysia.

Hantar email ke tamanwangi-subscribe@yahoogroups.com untuk menyertai senarai email terhad pelbagai tips dan nasihat seks untuk pasangan suami isteri atau terus ke link Taman Wangi

http://asia.groups.yahoo.com/group/tamanwangi/join

SMS Percuma
http://smsbimbit.blogspot.com/

Dating Perempuan Melayu Malaysia
http://dating.perempuanmelayu.info/

http://kamsutra.tipswanita.com/
Blog Ebook Pancutkan Isteri Puaskan Isteri

Untuk simpanan

Sertai Channel Belajarseks

http://www.youtube.com/user/pengetua2020

Siri posisi seks Taman Wangi kini boleh dilihat melalui Ziddu.com. Diharapkan ia dapat membantu suami isteri yang mahu menghayati siri posisi seks taman wangi. Buat masa ini hanya Posisi Seks Taman Wangi siri 1 dan 2 dan akan diteruskan dengan siri-siri yang lain bila keadaan mengizinkan.

Siri Posisi Seks Taman Wangi di Ziddu.com boleh muat turun di

http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2009/03/posisi-seks-blog-taman-wangi-siri-1-dan.html

Magnetic Resonance Images (MRI) of the male and female genitals during coitus

Midsagittal image of the anatomy of sexual intercourse (experiment 12). P=penis, Ur=urethra, Pe=perineum, U=uterus, S=symphysis, B=bladder, I=intestine, L5=lumbar 5, Sc=scrotum


MRI of Coitus.

From :
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/319/7225/1596

Key to Kama Sutra Position Angles

Key to Kama Sutra Position Angles