Part 1
Oral sex is great – probably the greatest sex ever. Any sex partner of a male person (or a person equipped with a fully functional male organ) that do not lay their mouths on the partner's tool, must accept the fact that they have an unsatisfied partner. A lot of selfish lovers fear that having given their male partner an orgasm orally (which by default will be a massive orgasm) the partner will not have the energy /will to continue the love making session. I cannot speak for all males on this dirty and dying planet, but this I know: After a great oral orgasm, I have the patience to stimulate my (female) partner orally through multiple-multiple orgasms. What is more, orally stimulating her never fails to excite me into a full erection, which ultimately leads to (more)-conventional penetrative sex.
Not only penetrative sex, but longggg lasting penetrative sex. So long lasting that my partner of a couple of years started suggesting that we invite a second female to such sessions (to take some heat off her). Now the objective here is not to boast about my powers, but to get down to the how-to of blowjobs - so I will get on with it. I have never, and do not intend to ever be, a giver of blowjobs (sorry guys), but have been on the receiving end of Bj's conducted by both experienced and novice lovers – so I thought of sharing some of my likes and don't likes with the broader public. My sharing is primarily intended to give the novice wives/lovers out there some pointers so they can satisfy their men with confidence. Some basic rules (mine anyway):
- I don't particularly like running my tongue up and down a smelly salty slit, so I don't expect my partner to put a cock with a days (or more) growth of bacteria and other accumulations in her mouth. Cleanliness (of both parties) is the key to uninhibited enjoyment. Tip to all cock wearers – apply a drop of aftershave to your hands, and give your inner thigh, pubic hair, the underside of your sac and the anus region a slight aftershave odour. It usually encourages the timid blow-jobber and makes them bolder (to your advantage this is). Second tip, if the aftershave burn the hell out of your sac and anus, pay attention to my writings – I said a drop, not the whole dam bottle!
- For your partner to get into this Bj thing you mist communicate constructively (for the Americans – this means tell them they suck at sucking by making them feel good about themselves). Give hints and suggestions, motivate them… and for pete's sake remember you want them to satisfy you for ever and a day (not just for that moment), so don't force anything and don't let your frustration show. So boys, coming on their faces or in their mouths is out – until they decide they want it (if there are any women out there that think getting a wad of sperm on your face is part of a normal, balanced relationship – boy have I got news for you… or better… get in touch with me I know people with dog-leashes and whips that will pay me to introduce you to them) This is getting too much for one submission. I will break this into parts.
