Harmonizing sex is one of the topics that is discussed most in marriage sessions. If this is made possible we can see reduced number of divorce cases, cheating cases, extra-marital affairs and even rape. Men think about sex more than anything else and are therefore more likely to be the more interested partner. If a man gets better sex somewhere away from home, he grows fond of that person and with time he lacks attachment with his wife. The wife becomes more of a friend and less of a lover. There are some people who do not feel free to broach the sex subject when they have stayed for a long time without having it.
Romantic love is conditional love and it can only be normal to fulfill conditions in order to stay intimate with your partner. Some of the conditions are getting home early, providing for everything without complaining and the greatest of them all is giving them good sex. Harmonizing sex calls for coordination in all other areas of life. The conditions must be looked at all the time to ensure that there is no resentment in the relationship. Harmonizing sex starts at paying bills in time, complimenting your partner, looking smart and buying gifts too. If you do all these things for your partner, they will have a good reason to love you especially female partners. If you love somebody, you can show it best by making love. Women need a reason to have sex and so give her enough reason to always come back for more.
Read books as a couple, enroll for mentorship classes and watch some blue movies together. This shows that you are in harmonizing sex together. Many women do not like when the men in their lives watch pornography but have they ever tried to join in? When you find him fixated on the screen shout something like "wow, that must feel pleasurable" then join him with equal interest. This can open up your sex communication lines and assist you to try new things. In an effort to synchronize the desire always remind your partner that you are in the sexual engagement together.
Author : Francis K. Githinji